When you are giving a relationship false hopes and unrealistic expectations, the relationship will not live up to them because it’s a real relationship. And you’ll think there is something wrong with your partner, or even yourself.
Setting unrealistic expectations builds tension between the couple as they are impossible to live up to.
The false idea that theirs is a ‘twin soul’ relationship becomes more important than seeing the happiness of each other.
And if the relationship turns out to be normal, even though they are quite happy, people would feel that they are in a wrong relationship just because it’s not with their twin flame.
Even worse, some people would do anything to justify that they are in a twin flame relationship. They will go against their happiness just so their relationship looks perfect.
They will avoid conflicts, they will fake their desires, feelings, passions, things they love doing, their appearance and opinions just so their relationship looks like straight out of a fantasy. This is what we call a “False Twin” relationship.
7 Differences Between A Twin Flame and A ‘False Twin’ Relationship
1. A twin flame will seem like you’ve known them since forever, but they will make you feel like you want to know them even more. – A false twin will make you feel like you know them enough.
2. A twin flame will make you feel free to express who you really are and what you really feel. – A false twin will make you hide your real feelings as not to usurp the relationship’s perfection.
3. You will feel a sense of expansion with your twin flame. – You will feel a sense of contraction with a false twin.
4. You will bring out the best in each other when you are with your twin flame. – You will force each other to appear perfect with your false twin.
5. You and your twin flame have strong empathy of each other’s emotions. – You and your false twin act as if your emotions are always positive, not being aware of what the other really feels.
6. You and your twin flame unconditionally accept each other. – You and your false twin follow certain rules and conditions in order to accept each other.
7. You firmly know, deep inside your heart that they are your twin flame, without any proof. – You will never have this certainty with a false twin.

Your relationship is not a fairytale!

You are not in a movie. You are real. And people would let something real get ruined because they like their relationship to look like a movie.
The thing is before you come into this world, certain aspects of your life are already predestined.
Even though you can exercise your free will in some other ways, twin souls are already fixed even before they were born. And they were destined to meet, no matter what.
Only that you cannot decide when to meet your twin soul. Everything depends on the spiritual progress of the both of you. But when they do come, you will know instantly.
However, and this is a BIG HOWEVER, the point of a relationship is not to find your twin flame. The point of a relationship is love!
The point of your twin flame is to teach you how to be better at relationships so you can better exercise love.


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